If I ask you to name 10 things/people you love, any of them will be you and if yes, at what number have you placed yourself?
Last weeks have been very challenging for many people. I have daily conversations with my clients and my friends, figuring out together what is happening in their lives and guiding them to understand what they have to learn from what is happening, in order for them to heal and clear the karma.
It’s a very intense period especially for couples. So many things are coming out, so many clarifications needed and also many relationships coming to an end. Until the end of the year, it will be a profound “cleaning” process for relationships. People who are meant to be together, but are in the wrong relationships, will be helped to learn their lessons, clear the karma, close that relationship and find the person with who they are supposed to be. The planet needs the strong couples, who chose to be here united in the purest type of love, to help in the accession process, so, if you are in a relationship, watch what is happening and if you are single and you desire to meet that special person, hang in there, things are arranging for your best.
What I noticed in the conversations I had is that people have the tendency to put themselves last or in many cases, to give to others from an empty cup, feeling drained at the end of the day.
I am a healer and I help people daily, but there are 2 things I learned(the hard way) and I follow this all the time: first, if you don’t have boundaries, there will be people who will only know how to take, not giving anything back and you will be left without power and energy and second, loving yourself and making yourself a priority is very important, in every situation.
Boundaries and self-love are 2 very important ingredients in our lives. The way we let other people cross our boundaries says a lot about how much we love ourselves. Of course, this is connected also with self-worth and so many people have problems with all this, that’s why they stay in relationships they don’t belong anymore, they keep jobs they don’t love, they allow people around them to treat them not in a good way and many more.
I was there also and I learned it the hard way, through pain and many failed relationships, but, I am grateful, because all of them were my teachers and now I have the knowledge and experience to help others go through this in a easy way.
As an exercise, try to observe, in a week, how many things you do for yourself?
Notice everything: how you think about yourself, what food you give to your body, how do you speak about yourself, if you exercise, if you learn new things, if you care about your growth and evolution, if you do something nice for yourself, if you say no when you don’t want to do something, putting yourself first and not other peoples needs and so on. See what are the results after one week and share them with me if you desire to speak with someone about your results!
When it comes to boundaries, the “observer position” will help you. Notice your behavior, notice other peoples behavior with you, notice if you do things you don’t want just to please the other person, notice if you let others impose their point of view when it comes to your life, decisions and so on, notice how many times you let others take control of your life?
All this have the purpose to help you become more aware of what is happening in your life and more aware of yourself. So many people function on “automatic pilot” daily, not having the time to actually observe what is happening in their lives. That is why they wake up on day and realize they are anxious, they are depressed and their life is miserable and they don’t know what to do to escape.
As I always say, be present in the moment, be present daily in your life and observe. This are some of the most important things you can do for yourself!
Be aware, you will notice the wonders of this world !
I am here for you, if you desire a guide, my help and support!
Together, we are always stronger!
Unconditional love to you all!